WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT JDWC

Thank you for this outstanding program and opportunity. My child says it changed his life, and we agree. He gained so much confidence and maturity.

- Cotillion Parent

My son didn't know anyone when I signed him up, so he was hesitant about attending. After the first class he was fine with not being with friends and said he actually liked it much more than he had expected.

- Cotillion Parent

We drove over an hour and a half to attend the program and it was worth the drive each week! I loved hearing the things my son learned and he treated me like a lady during the final celebration. It was an honor to dance with my son as he taught me the new dance steps.

- Cotillion Parent

My son was a little angry with me when I signed him up for your program even though he had some friends going in. After the first session, he came home with a smile on his face and said he was wrong about it being boring. He has enjoyed attending your sessions. As a parent, I really appreciate the hard work you all do putting together a program with great life skills and still making it fun for the kids.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter was not sure how she would like this program when she started - by the end, she loved it! She enthusiastically went to every session. I realize that she was a bit shy in the class, but she truly absorbed everything she learned, and we would review it in the car after each session!

- Cotillion Parent

My son loved his first Cotillion experience and wants to return! This shows me he had fun in addition to all of the great learning that came along with it. He has 2 younger brothers who are now begging to go! I am so happy it was a good experience. Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

My son did NOT want to go when I signed him up. In fact, he was mad about having to go. He loved every minute of it and looked forward to it each week. He even said he was doing it next year!

- Cotillion Parent

My son had a wonderful experience with Cotillion and will go again next year. ... I think the dance and emphasis on advanced social skills (beyond please and thank you) are a strong point of the Cotillion program.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter truly enjoyed herself. She made good friends from other areas and learned a great deal. It was fun enough to have her wanting to go back, but still targeted important skills. The leader had a wonderful personality that always kept the children's attention.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter loved being involved in cotillion! I've seen improvements in manners and etiquette! I'm excited for the next year!!

- Cotillion Parent

I thought that this experience was very valuable. My child was in the 3rd/4th grade class, and I appreciated the great opportunity to practice conversation, introductions and courtesy during the dancing. I saw significant improvement in her ability to do this comfortably in many other situations because of the practice she had at Cotillion. The table manners were a wonderful introduction. And she loved the dancing! Overall, Cotillion was a very special experience and we look forward to continuing in the next classes.

- Cotillion Parent

Your instructors are excellent, and can really handle a large crowd of 5th and 6th graders. Your assistants are great role models, and add great value to the program. The class seemed to be always moving and there was not a lot of down time. Respectful behavior was expected. Your adult volunteers were awesome and provided valuable support for nervous students and those lacking some self confidence. Thank you for a wonderful experience!

- Cotillion Parent

Our son was very hesitant about going after we told him we signed him up. After the very first night, I picked up my son and his best friend and they were giddy!!! Giggling and laughing in the car and telling me all about how much fun they had and what they had learned. I am SO happy we signed him up and will continue to do so next year as well. Very valuable, and the instructor obviously make it very fun!

- Cotillion Parent

My son brought home a sheet entitled Making Good Choices: 60 Courtesies That Will Make You a Leader. We have it hanging on our refrigerator now. I am very impressed with the sixty courtesies delineated on this sheet. I did talk to my son about the sheet, and I will continue to reference it in future discussions. I really appreciate the fact that what we are striving to do within our home is reinforced at cotillion. Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

I was very impressed with the instruction and the quality of all the classes. I especially appreciated how humor was used to keep everyone in good spirits and smiling.

- Cotillion Parent

Our daughter grew more confident as the season progressed. It was such a pleasure to watch her grow. We will absolutely participate again! I am so impressed with this program.

- Cotillion Parent

We love cotillion! It is wonderful and very important. I wish I had such an opportunity when I was growing up.

- Cotillion Parent

I really liked the nice lady who ran the program and held the microphone each day. She truly had a talent with these kids and they seemed to listen and respond to her well. Our daughter and the other students have added to their skill set and other manners have been reinforced. I think the entire program this year was valuable.

- Cotillion Parent

Excellent instruction made this a thoroughly enjoyable experience. We will be back next year.

- Cotillion Parent

My son enjoyed the dancing part the most and I believe it’s because the environment provided him a safe and acceptable environment to dance with young ladies without social peer pressure.

- Cotillion Parent

These skills are so important, and not necessarily taught at school or home. I know our kids get good table manner instruction and communication practice at home, but your program is the only place where the other skills (dance, first impressions, social skills, and character) are defined, demonstrated, and explicitly taught in such a fun and accessible way.

- Cotillion Parent

My son had a wonderful time attending Cotillion. He enjoyed being more social with girls and learning about etiquette. As a parent, I am impressed that he has gained confidence with friends and with those he first meets. He is comfortable in more settings.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter is a shy girl. Cotillion forced her to step out of her shell. She's now teaching her friends the Foxtrot! We noticed a change immediately after her first class, especially with her table manners! Thank you for a wonderful experience.

- Cotillion Parent

One of the most notable lessons that my son learned was realized when I requested that he set the table for dinner (a nightly chore) and when he did so we each had an entire suite of proper cutlery surrounding our plates (and perfectly placed)! I was so incredibly proud.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter had a big interview. At the end of the hour and a half interview, her interviewer asked if she had interview experience. She said that she had one other interview when applying to grad school. The interviewer was amazed and told her she did an excellent job! Thanks to MANY years of cotillion and the points emphasized in the curriculum taught, she had the information and confidence to present herself well. We were happy she felt so good about how she did and her resumé covered her experience. There are many applicants for these two spots as a speech pathologist at the University Medical Center. The ripples from your classes are far reaching! Thank you!!!!

- Cotillion Parent

I thought you might like to hear this example of Cotillion skills at work: My mother passed away recently and last week we had her visitation and memorial service. At both events our family had to stand in a receiving line to welcome friends and family and receive their condolences. Spencer completely amazed me. When the first person came down the line, Spencer was the first to stick out his hand, look at the adult in the eye, introduce himself and give a firm handshake. After he did this for the first few visitors, I turned to Spencer and told him how impressed I was. I said that he was much better at this than many adults. He told me he learned it at Cotillion - and I could tell that it made him feel really good. And trust me, it didn't go unnoticed. Many of the guests were wowed by his confident handshake and introduction. All thanks to Cotillion.

- Cotillion Parent

I continue to be impressed. This past weekend at a First Communion, my older homeschooled son (who has less exposure socially in general compared to schooled kids), rose from his seat and helped seat a girl by pulling out her chair and guiding her in. Everyone was stunned and speechless. Nice job!

- Cotillion Parent

The Cotillion is the perfect friendly, natural environment for students to learn social etiquette. Two thumbs up!

- Cotillion Parent

I loved everything about the program, all the teachers were fantastic!

- Cotillion Parent

Cotillion had a powerful impact on my daughter's self image.

- Cotillion Parent

I liked the etiquette education and the quality of instructors - one of the best programs I have ever put my child in!

- Cotillion Parent

This program is very organized and on time. It made it both fun and reliable for my son.

- Cotillion Parent

I am so thankful for the confidence Austin was given through this program. Cutting through the terror of his first dance, experiencing the interaction with the young ladies has been so beneficial for his confidence.

- Cotillion Parent

The instructor was very good with this age group. NOT TOO SERIOUS! He spoke to them with respect and kept the class moving. In fact, it was his excellent manner with the children that helped them to really learn something and they began to love it.

- Cotillion Parent

Jon D. Williams Cotillions is a first class program all around! It is the perfect combination of social education, common courtesy, etiquette, character building, and FUN! The instructors represent excellent role models while striving to create an accepting and comfortable atmosphere for kids to grow socially. Now that all three of my children have participated in the program at different levels, and after observing several classes myself, I am even a bigger fan of Jon D. Williams Cotillions. It's a wonderful and worthwhile family investment!

- Cotillion Committee Member and Parent

Cotillion is such a unique experience; unique educational facet and so neglected in today's culture! Families used to attend semi-formal and formal events on a regular basis, where children, teens and young adults were exposed to and coached thru different social situations. Weddings, Bar Mitzvahs, symphony concerts, Broadway shows, ballet, opera, graduations, school plays, concerts and recitals, awards ceremonies, even Memorial Day or Veterans' Day parade were regular venues for parents to teach and train their sons and daughters about proper attire and appropriate manners to show respect and consideration for those around them, especially their elders. Unfortunately, this way of life is rare. The next generation has lost a degree of civility because of it, it seems.

- Cotillion Parent

Our daughter (after only one season of cotillion!) immediately put it to good use in a choir concert - that required a couple to ballroom dance during one song. She was the only young lady in the 6th grade that even knew what the teacher was talking about! The only boy who knew - had been in her cotillion class. We are certainly looking forward to our youngest also attaining these crucial skills. It will be fun to see where he puts them to good use.

- Cotillion Parent

Greetings: I am the mother of a 7th grade boy currently in your class at the Salt Lake Country Club in Salt Lake City. So far, we have had two sessions with our next one being the dinner/dance event. I want to share that we have thoroughly enjoyed the first two classes! Thank you so much for continuing this worthwhile and valuable tradition of classes!!! Please keep it going. I look forward to enrolling my children in future classes, and my son has already recruited a few friends for the next class. I also look forward to enrolling my younger son, next year.

- Cotillion Parent

Dear Sir or Madam, My daughter is enrolled in the class that began yesterday. I just wanted to say that I was very impressed as I stayed and watched. I believe every young man should be given the opportunity to learn to behave as a gentleman and every young lady should be given the opportunity to be treated with respect and treat others with respect. I saw that as I stayed and watched. I am so happy that someone passed the information to me last spring and I enrolled my 6th grade daughter. I only look forward to the next five classes and when my son reaches the age he can attend, he will definitely be one of your students! Thank you so very much for what you do!

- Cotillion Parent

I wanted to thank you for the remarkable customer service we have received as participants in Cotillion. Over the last several weeks, my son has attended the program. He was a little apprehensive initially. Now, he looks forward to each Sunday's class. The quality of the program is excellent. The instructors make the class fun and exemplify the behavior they are trying to teach the children. Once again, this experience has greatly exceeded our expectations. Cotillion Parent

- Cotillion Parent

Dear JDW, Thank you again, so VERY much for flying to Dallas to teach Cotillion lessons another season. We so very much enjoy watching our children go thru the program; and how much confidence, consideration and appreciation they ultimately walk away with. We are confident they will have fond memories and practical skills that will set them apart from their peers, in every situation from now on. Plus they will value this experience and plan for it, when they marry and start a family! Who knows how many generations will have your influence and wisdom?

- Cotillion Parent

Our son and daughter both had a top notch experience in the 3 yr. Middle School program. Our son has used the social skills in job, college and scholarship interviews. It has come in extremely handy when he started attending the JROTC Military Ball in high school. It was an extremely formal event, with military protocol. Almost all the freshmen stumbled thru the motions, while he and another cadet (former military family) were quite at ease. He was the only freshmen who knew how to go thru a receiving line and make proper introductions. After dinner, (another smooth sailing, multiple silverware settings, glasses and courses - thank you JDW!) when he and his partner were on the dance floor, they danced so well (even though the young lady hadn't the benefit of cotillion) that several of his peers were amazed...

- Cotillion Parent

Thank you again for putting together such a wonderful program that will have a lasting effect on many generations. I can only hope that more families are able to have this advantage for their sons and daughters. We will always HIGHLY recommend JDW to our family, friends and neighbors enthusiastically. The assistant teachers were always professional and pleasant. The teachers were just always, above and beyond our expectations, in all areas of teaching, training and information presented. It was so interesting and entertaining we sat thru all the sessions ourselves!

- Cotillion Parent

Tonight I arrived with 5 restless boys for Cotillion. Four of these boys had never done it before and they were all extremely nervous. On the way there, they were asking questions and telling each other that they don't know why they had to do this stupid class, that it was going to be dumb and a total waste of time. After they arrived and checked in, the boys became a little more comfortable as they laughed and joked and met a few of the other boys. But, when the girls arrived, they started to feel really sick to their stomachs and a few wanted to go home. When class was finished, they couldn't stop talking and laughing. One boy called his mother as he was exiting the ballroom to say what a wonderful time he had and that he couldn't wait to tell her all about it. All I heard on the drive home was how different Cotillion was than what they expected, how much fun they had, how cool the other kids were, and how cute all the girls were. They were disappointed that they had to wait two weeks for the next class. As I dropped off each child, it was a thrill to hear each of these boys tell their parents thank you for making them do Cotillion, that they couldn't wait for the next class. I know how hard you guys have worked to make this come together. I just wanted to tell you, on behalf of 5 families, a very big THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You guys are the best!

- Cotillion Parent

I was so incredibly impressed with the program. This was my first experience with cotillion and I could not have been happier with the entire experience. I strongly believe that this is something that should be on the top of every parent's 'to do' list for their child. Sports seems to be what every parent will go to any expense for, but this is what is desperately needed in their child's life!

- Cotillion Parent

I was so happy that my son was excited to go to the Cotillion. We had to miss one of the sessions for a football practice and he was so upset. He really enjoyed the classes and I still test him on what he learned and he remembers it all. Thanks!

- Cotillion Parent

Absolutely love the fact that your program exists and hope it continues in my area so all of my children can attend. I want both of my children to attend both the 5th and 6th grade programs! This is an outstanding curriculum that covers highly important real-world lessons rarely dealt with in today's society. Those that put these lessons into practice will be head-and-shoulders above their contemporaries. Continued success to you all and THANK YOU!

- Cotillion Parent

We are very grateful for the opportunity to participate in this program. Our daughter has benefited tremendously. She is more confident, pleasant and happy to interact socially. She knows what to do, and what is expected of her. She feels good about it and gets positive feedback from the people she interacts with, both children and adults. I cannot say enough of how good this has been for our family.

- Cotillion Parent

Thank you again, so VERY much for another season. We so very much enjoy watching our children go thru the program; and how much confidence, consideration and appreciation they ultimately walk away with. We are confident they will have fond memories and practical skills that will set them apart from their peers, in every situation from now on. Plus they will value this experience and plan for it, when they marry and start a family! Who knows how many generations will benefit from your influence and wisdom?

- Cotillion Parent

My son had such a wonderful experience, he wants to do it again next year! Thank you, he uses everything he learned every day.

- Cotillion Parent

I would love to see this brought into the schools. There seem to be so many 'programs' for anti-bullying yet they don't seem to teach proper communication skills. Kids need the 'tools' that you provide in Cotillion. They need to learn HOW to COMMUNICATE with each other! Role playing and putting a child in another child's shoes can make a big difference. Every child comes from a different background and they experience 'home life' differently too. We need to acknowledge this fact. No child likes to feel left out or angry all the time. They need to learn to communicate and you help to facilitate that!!

- Cotillion Parent

I cannot believe how well my son can dance! Dancing with him at Parents Night was so wonderful. He could even lead and look me in the eyes at the same time. Watching his grace and calm while dancing with girls his age was heartwarming; he was smiling and laughing and so were they. My goodness.

- Cotillion Parent

My husband and I were very impressed with the newfound confidence he received by attending cotillion. All on his own, he had the confidence to introduce himself to his dance partner's father at parent's night. We were shocked, to say the least.

- Cotillion Parent

I think the program is wonderful and each year it builds up to the next level. I feel it is important for parents to give their children every opportunity to succeed in life and this program is one of those opportunities.

- Cotillion Parent

When we left Parents Night we didn't even get down the street and Robert asked if he was going to do it next year. He loved it! Keep up the good work!

- Cotillion Parent

This is my third child to participate in the JDWC program. My oldest daughter, who is now 24, has mentioned numerous times how her participation equipped her for college interviews, scholarship interviews, job interviews, and social events in college and since graduating from college. My second daughter who is now a junior in high school has also benefitted from her training. She feels comfortable in social situations, and I'm confident she will use the etiquette she learned as part of your program as she begins her college search and career. I'm grateful that my youngest daughter also has this opportunity.

- Cotillion Parent

Years have passed since our daughters attended cotillion. Just wanted to let you know that both gals have graduated and are out on their own in the world today, both shake hands and look you in the eye as a result of successfully completing JDW cotillion. My husband and I think of your program often and the importance you played in our girls' lives. We thank you, JDWC.

- Cotillion Parent

Wonderful opportunity for children to learn social skills/manners from a source more informed than their parents.

- Cotillion Parent

Staff and course content were very solid. I very much appreciate how politely the kids were treated by the instructors (no substitute for example!)

- Cotillion Parent

Aidan had a ball. At the end of the first class he said that it was too bad that they couldn't do it for the whole year.

- Cotillion Parent

This was a fabulous experience for my child... a great introduction to the art of social etiquette.

- Cotillion Parent

The simple fact that my son will now introduce himself and not hide behind me was worth every penny! The fact that he wants to come back next year is icing on the cake!

- Cotillion Parent

My child enjoyed everything she experienced in this class and she learned a lot about social graces and etiquette. I wish to enroll her again next year and my son and will surely spread the word to all the people we know. Thank you for a successful program.

- Cotillion Parent

We feel Cotillion is a definite feather in our son's cap and we thank you for the excellent instruction in a fun environment. We especially liked the emphasis on treating everyone nicely and respectfully, whether you happen to like him/her or not! Thanks!!

- Cotillion Parent

The parents were not able to be present for the 'table manners' session. However, given our child's enthusiasm and eagerness to display the 'proper' table etiquette manners he learned that evening, I believe it was quite an enjoyable success! As parents, we believe that it is of the utmost importance for children to learn how to 'carry' themselves in any situation. Any character, communication, social, and life skills they are able to learn will benefit them the rest of their lives. We certainly appreciate the opportunity for our child to be a part of the JDW Cotillion experience. Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

We LOVED the program! The final party was WONDERFUL!!! My daughter had such a great time. My husband really enjoyed the special time he spent with Julia. Thank you for such a special program for our children!!!

- Cotillion Parent

We enjoyed it greatly. I was thrilled to dance with my son at the final party, as well as see him with his partners. Thank you for providing this opportunity.

- Cotillion Parent

Our son went to the first session with trepidation. By the second one he was already talking about attending next year's program. The program really helped with his self confidence and social skills as well as awareness of others and their needs.

- Cotillion Parent

My son loved it. He has definitely improved his table manners. He loved the dancing.

- Cotillion Parent

I love this program and see how it impacts my son's confidence in social situations. I KNOW this works because I can see it in the way he interacts with others at gatherings.

- Cotillion Parent

We thoroughly enjoyed the program! We expected to drag him kicking and screaming, but he loved it from the first day. Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

Terrific; I highly recommend. WISH my company would hire you - I am often shocked at how many co-workers have no social skills!

- Cotillion Parent

I wish all children would take this course! It not only teaches children manners and etiquette, it also helps children to understand that there is a way to respectfully interact with a person of the opposite sex.

- Cotillion Parent

My son believes this was one of the best experiences he has ever had. He looked forward to every session with great enthusiasm and is looking forward to enrolling again next year.

- Cotillion Parent

This was our first experience with JDW. Our granddaughter was undecided, but when it was all over, she asked to do it again. That says a lot about the program.

- Cotillion Parent

This is my second son to attend. We are very happy with the program and the rewards and values it has brought to our sons!

- Cotillion Parent

You have a good program when kids come and go with smiling faces

- Cotillion Parent

Jon Williams and his instructors do a wonderful job and present themselves in a manner that is a good example to the students.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter really enjoyed this program. I loved the opportunity to discuss some of these topics with her. If she had not been enrolled, I'm not sure we would have discussed these things. I would highly recommend this program to others.

- Cotillion Parent

We did not know how our daughter was going to respond to attending Cotillion. But after the first class, she loved it, and was always excited when it came time for next class. She thoroughly enjoyed it, and took away many concepts that she will continue to use over the course of her life. We are already planning on signing up for next year's session. Great job, and Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

I believe that if a child grows up with good dance skills, then he/she will have the confidence and self esteem to handle problems and situations that might present themselves later in life. A great program for kids! It would be wonderful if middle schools could use it in their curriculum!

- Cotillion Parent

If my 8 year old son LOVES to go learn social skills and dance, you are doing something amazing! Thanks for everything and we can't wait for next year...

- Cotillion Parent

I've looked forward to Cotillion for both of my children. To me it is one of the few things that marks the passage from childhood to young adulthood--stressing the social graces that are needed as they start socializing outside the home and classroom.

- Cotillion Parent

This program is priceless!

- Cotillion Parent

Always awesome! I love this program... enjoyed it with my daughter and now my son! It has been the highlight of his year! He is totally into it!

- Cotillion Parent

I was very pleased with all aspects of the program. It exceeded my expectations! My daughter loved cotillion!

- Cotillion Parent

We love how the instructors use humor to teach the children...this keeps them interested and helps them remember the information.

- Cotillion Parent

Thank you for your attention to detail. Your program is superior in all areas!

- Cotillion Parent

This was our daughter's first time in cotillion and we are absolutely thrilled with the class! The instructor was amazing! Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

This was her first time and she loved it ! You will be seeing her again next year and also her twin brother and sister. Thank you all so much for your time, we thought you all did a great job and the kids learned a lot.

- Cotillion Parent

Our daughter is a very shy child, and seeing her laughing and having a good time while at the same time learning was heartwarming. She has already begun using the Etiquette Education. She would love to continue to the advanced classes. Cotillion has given her the self esteem she lacked, brought her out of her shell with the dancing, and helped her to start to overcome her shyness by teaching her to interact with other children in a formal setting.

- Cotillion Parent

A great program for kids! It would be wonderful if middle schools could use it in their curriculum!

- Cotillion Parent

Sure wish I had started this when he was a lot younger. My son learned so much. What a great program.

- Cotillion Parent

I have watched every class for the last 3 years. It's magical to watch these young students interact with each other.

- Cotillion Parent

Thank you for the opportunity for our child to see the value of social skills in an organized manner. This should be required curriculum in all schools.

- Cotillion Parent

My daughter thoroughly enjoyed the program. This was her second year to attend and it just gets better each year. Thanks for continuing to work with our young people.

- Cotillion Parent

Many, many thanks for an overall lovely experience. We look forward to next year already.

- Cotillion Parent

Overall my son enjoyed this immeasurably and can't wait until the program is offered again. I see this as very beneficial. Manners are SERIOUSLY deficient in today's society.

- Cotillion Parent

Our daughter was so impressed she is already planning on attending next year. We are planning on having our youngest start earlier. Thank you for continuing cotillion. It is wonderful to see how it improves their overall self-worth.

- Cotillion Parent

Having participated in these programs as a young girl, I am pleased that my daughter sees this as valuable information while also enjoying herself during the class. She also feels good about herself at the end of the night without feeling critiqued or criticized. Good for you!

- Cotillion Parent

You all did a wonderful job. My daughter learned things in cotillion that she will actually use in her life down the road. Fabulous program.

- Cotillion Parent

My son cannot wait to sign up for next year! I think it is money well spent! Thank you!

- Cotillion Parent

Thank you so much for another successful year. We really appreciate your efforts to improve upon an already highly effective program.

- Cotillion Parent

I felt my child had a great time dancing and meeting new friends. She made the comment it was like going to a party every week. It was a blast.

- Cotillion Parent

This was my daughter's first exposure to Cotillion and she thoroughly enjoyed this session. The instructor and assistants did a wonderful job, as well as the hosts serving the refreshments. Thank you for a well put together program.

- Cotillion Parent

My son dreaded the first day; afterward, he could hardly wait for the Fridays!! After the first session, he made me promise he could sign up again next year. Thank you for a lovely program!

- Cotillion Parent

Cotillion over the past several years has become an integral party of my life. I found it amazing how much just six nights a year could change me! Cotillion has helped me become the person I am today, turning a shy fifth grader into a confident and considerate young man. The instructor's upbeat and humorous attitude made a class, which was initially terrifying into the highlight of my month, year after year.

- Cotillion Graduate

Thanks to Cotillion I feel confident working with peers I have only known a short time. I feel comfortable conversing with adults as well. Recently my Cotillion experiences were put to the test in a scholarship interview. I was able to demonstrate how to shake hands, make eye contact and exude confidence, even thought I was a bit nervous. I learned all of these skills during my time at Cotillion.

- Cotillion Student

Nowadays with the emphasis on technology, face-to-face interaction is less formal, especially between youth and adults. However, the skills I acquired through the Cotillion definitely helped me become more confident and comfortable. Through Cotillion I know how to introduce myself and can easily carry on a conversation with any adult, as well as make a positive impression.

- Cotillion Student

Cotillion has helped my confidence in many situations. As a freshman at a new high school, I didn't really know may kids and putting my Cotillion training to use to make new friends was a great tool for me personally. Knowing how to make conversation and look others in the eye is as important as doing your homework, in my opinion.

- Cotillion Student

JDW Cotillions has truly impacted my high school career. It set me up for success interacting with business professionals and school administrators. As class president of the largest school in Colorado and founder of our school's mobile app, there were many opportunities for me to set myself apart from my peers because of my Cotillion education. The absolutely most important thing I have taken with me is the importance of a strong introduction and thanking my hosts.

- Cotillion Graduate

Lately as I prepare to go off to college, I am reminded of everything I learned in Cotillion six or seven years ago. Overall, Cotillion has made me more aware and considerate about how I move and talk around others. As someone who was raised to be a "southern belle", this more than anything has reinforced what my parents taught me. Thank you!

- Cotillion Graduate

I attribute my confidence and success to attending the JDW Cotillion. The "five aspects of a beneficial first impression" became my rock in (scholarship) interviews. "Kindness, Courtesy, Consideration & Respect equals Power Plus" proved effective over and over. Using these skills I received a Knights of Columbus and a Presidential Scholarship for four years.. Without Cotillion, I could not have received these awards and attended my ideal school. Cotillion indirectly provides the path toward all your goals, if you use the knowledge you gain from it correctly. I am the living proof of this. I am sure my experience is not singular, and I encourage others to do what I have done. Pursue your dreams with your JDW education, and you will reach them!

- Cotillion Graduate

Ten years sure do fly by fast! When I first came to cotillion in the 3rd grade I was a little unsure of how important the way you squeeze your toothpaste was. It humbles me to think that the skills you have taught me have become a true part of who I am. Through cotillion I have learned many life skills, been offered many opportunities, found success, and have learned how to set myself apart from much of today's society. The communication and personal skills I have learned, along with your unconditional support have landed me with one of my biggest successes yet: an acceptance letter from the University of Denver. I am forever grateful for everything you have done for me. You are a true inspiration, and I am so blessed to have had the opportunity to spend the last 10 years under your wing. Thank you for everything.

- Student Assistant

It is truly amazing that even in my seventh year of cotillion I continue to learn new things. I never left class without a new outlook on teaching and life in general. I find many positive experiences each year at cotillion and am especially grateful for this year. I await Friday nights when I know I will see the JDW instructors. They have always proved to be wonderful role models. I enjoy watching as they command the attention of a group of students so well and constantly challenge the students to reach their maximum potential.

- Student Assistant

This experience is definitely a jumpstart for my future!

- High School Cotillion Student

Thank you so much for your beautifully written letter of recommendation as well as your continued support. It was with your help that I was accepted to the United States Air Force Academy! Thank you so much for the wonderful education I received through your program, and the confidence you had in me to achieve my dreams!

- Cotillion Student Assistant

I have grown to be a respectable, polite, and mature woman thanks to my years participating as a student in the Jon D. Williams Cotillion program. I am grateful for the confidence I have gained as a result of this experience. I am graduating this June and I am excited for the future, but also a bit sad for the end of this experience. I believe this program has the ability to influence students lives beyond the curriculum and I am proud to be among these students. Thank you for the opportunities this program has created and continues to open for me.

- Cotillion Student

I have learned so many things through Cotillion. I am able to introduce myself to adults with confidence. This has helped me multiple times in interviews for other leadership roles. I have learned how to get along with different kinds of people, and if there is ever a problem, I am able to use the problem-solving skills I have developed over the years. Overall, Cotillion has improved my social skills, and I would not have traded this experience for anything.

- Cotillion Student

When I first started in Cotillion, it was all about the pretty dresses and getting together with another group of boys and girls. I have learned real life skills as well as dance, grace, poise and confidence. At my school we have a 'girls ask boys' dinner and dance, and not only did I know all about whose water was whose, and what forks were for salad and dessert, but I was able to tell everyone else at my table. People even asked me to show them some dances! Knowing that I have these life skills is an amazing feeling.

- Cotillion Student

Being in Cotillion has contributed to my confidence and success in many ways. In school I feel like I listen and respect my teachers more than I would without this experience. I am never afraid to introduce myself and carry on a conversation. I am so lucky to have had this amazing experience.

- Cotillion Student

I'm not quite an angel yet, but thanks to you I'm heading in the right direction!

- Cotillion Student

I would like to thank you for the wonderful experience of cotillion. I have learned so much and made many friends. I will be participating again this year in 9th grade, and have been participating since 3rd grade. Over the years I have been able to use what I have learned in various social situations.

- Cotillion Student

Thank you for offering me a scholarship to Cotillion this year. I really wanted to learn the manners and dance with the girls. This is very helpful to my family. Thank you for making it possible.

- Cotillion Student

It was a pleasure to be your student. Thank you for making dance so exciting. I really enjoy meeting new people and making new friends.

- Cotillion Student

How to be a good leader is something that I learned from the cotillion program. This year because of the self-confidence cotillion has provided me I was elected to be a part of National Honor Society and vice president of the senior class. Being a graduate of the program has provided me with the necessary skills I need to work with adults in planning events and thinking beyond basic needs. Cotillion has taught me responsibility.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has contributed to my confidence. In formal gatherings and social events I have been able to introduce others and myself to people around me and carry on a conversation with them as well. Confidence is the skill in which enables me to do this. My new found confidence is a huge asset to my success today, I thank JDW cotillion for the opportunity to help me get to where I am now and continue to help me succeed in life.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has taught me the importance of introducing myself to others. I had gone to a small private school from kindergarten through eighth grade. I had never understood the importance of a good introduction because I had known everyone. I transitioned into a huge public high school and had the opportunity to meet many new people. The importance of a good introduction sank in and I began to utilize all I had learned at cotillion. I am so thankful to have been able to learn these skills in the JDW cotillion program.

- Cotillion Graduate

JDW cotillion has helped me with my confidence and success in many ways. Being involved in the program since I was a young boy has shaped me to be a more confident man. It has taught me great leadership skills that I can now put into play at work and in my everyday life. Using my leadership and confidence during this baseball season has really made an impact on my teammates and coaches. The skills I have acquired from cotillion have resulted in success for countless aspects in my high school career. I thank cotillion for allowing the opportunity to learn manners and life skills.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has given me a deeper sense of confidence when going about my daily life. Not only have I learned life skills about leadership and responsibility, but I am now able to grasp the importance of the information that the cotillion program teaches their students. For example attending formal dinner events or going to an interview I know how to present myself and create successful situations where I am able to exceed my competitors due to the skills and etiquette that I learned in cotillion. In the upcoming year I will be visiting colleges and will be interview as part of the acceptance policy. Due to my experience in this wonderful program I feel prepared and confident in every situation that I come across.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion really stresses having good character. I use the things I learned to help me in interviews. I tried out for a program called conservatory in my school and I was keeping all of the keys to having a good first impression in mind during the interview. Three days later I was accepted into the program. I feel confident in getting a job and having the personal skills to be successful in interviews and professional dealings.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has greatly contributed to my confidence and success. I can walk into a room and not be worried about not knowing anyone there. I am not nervous to introduce myself to other people, which has helped me in many circumstances. I am also now very confident when talking to a group of people or when giving a presentation. Last year I was awarded the Mile High Scholar award and got to meet the mayor. I received a key to the city for my achievement! I think that cotillion greatly aided me in that accomplishment by making me more confident.

- Cotillion Graduate

I grew up with your programs. I am passionate about cotillion and its principles because it reinforces the value and proficiency of manners and etiquette in our society, which has done a rather poor job of doing so on its own. I think these programs do an excellent job of providing youth with an overview of basic social skills, and that your instructors are fantastic. A single course with JDW cotillions has the potential to change a person from slouching, unconfident, and unimpressive, to poised, competent, and exceptional.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has helped me in a plethora of ways and definitely helped me when it came time to interview for jobs. I was confident in my interviews, I knew how to dress appropriately, and also had a great recommendation letter. Thanks to the interview skills I learned at cotillion I was offered work at everyplace I interviewed. Also the things I learned at cotillion have helped me with dates and dances. I always know what to wear, how to act, and how my date should act as well. Thank you, cotillion, for so many life lessons.

- Cotillion Graduate

As a senior I have been benefitting from my experience as a cotillion student Because of the confidence I gained I have experienced success in interviews, corporate internships, and drill team. As a junior I applied for the very competitive senior school ambassador program. At the end of the six month application process there is an interview with the principal and other top administration. They were impressed with my language, and overall poise, all skills that I attribute to my cotillion experience.

- Cotillion Graduate

Knowledge is power. It felt so great to refresh my manners skills this fall. When I went home for Thanksgiving I gave my entire family a lesson on setting the table and table manners. It made me feel confident to know that I could teach something new and meaningful to others. Not only has Cotillion reinforced my manners, it has also enhanced my social skills. Having others look up to me has made me realize how important everything I do is.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has greatly contributed to my confidence and success. Over the past few years I have gained self confidence when talking to adults, peers and in front of large groups. My teachers have noticed the improvement, and I have received As on my presentations this year. I have had many opportunities to practice the lessons I have learned, and I know these lessons will help me in the years to come, especially when I interview for jobs. Thank you for the opportunity to participate in such an excellent organization.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has contributed to my success and confidence in social situations by improving my relationships and helping me form new ones. I use the manners and etiquette skills that I have learned and improved through cotillion to gain trust and achieve success. I am courteous and polite so that I can gain respect from others and standout in this competitive world. Being confident, I can then communicate better and advocate for myself. Cotillion has helped contribute to my confidence and success by letting me feel comfortable in any social situation.

- Cotillion Graduate

Jessica Alba once said “If you look confident you can pull off anything, even if you have no clue what you are doing” My experience from Cotillion has defiantly reinforced this idea. With a smile, a firm handshake, and a positive attitude, I feel completely confident and ready to take on challenges. The communication skills I learned at JDW cotillion give my presentations a boost. I break the ice, use some humor, and relate to the audience. Cotillion has allowed me to evaluate the profile that I am projecting. I was recently accepted onto my school's entrepreneurial board and in writing my application I considered the impression that I would make on my reader. Being involved in JDW cotillion was an awesome opportunity and I will forever value the skills that I learned.

- Cotillion Graduate

Jon D. Williams Cotillion is much more then social dancing and learning what utensils to use. The program has enabled me to feel stronger as a person, to feel confident when I walk into a room, and to feel pride in myself for who I am and what I hope to become. I firmly believe the skills I have learned from cotillion will help me in life in my desired role as a teacher and allow me to be better prepared for what life brings.

- Cotillion Graduate

I use the skills cotillion taught me every day. I will always give up my seat to a woman or elderly person, and never push open a door and let it close on someone. These skills proved very valuable during my high school interview. I know how to walk into an interview now, feel confident that I can shake hands firmly, engage in a mature conversation, and look somebody in the eye while speaking to them thanks to the interpersonal skills I have learned from the Jon D. Williams cotillion. I am proud to say that I was accepted into all of the private high schools that I applied to. The most important thing that cotillion has taught me is that being courteous and polite should never be considered old fashioned.

- Cotillion Graduate

My confidence from having attended Cotillion has driven me to aim higher and to become more. I gained enough confidence to put toward ambitious goals such as taking on several daily and weekly commitments, like two jobs and community service projects. All of this confidence and success I attribute to the Jon D. Williams cotillions. The program gave me just what I needed to be accepted into my top choice of colleges so that I can achieve success in my future.

- Cotillion Graduate

I am firmly convinced that the skills I've acquired through my years involved in cotillion helped me gain admission to some of the most prestigious and selective colleges and universities in the country.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has opened a huge door for me this year. Last year I was blessed with the opportunity to work in Nicaragua on a mission in the city which reached out to kids, teens, and adults through activities, church services, and feeding programs. Mid-October I got to visit Colorado, on a post-mission trip. In subtle conversation with others, we began talking about the various positions I have held. Though they knew nothing of Cotillion, I explained the emphasis is to teach students the importance of how you carry yourself in various situations and instructing partner dances, as they are a central focus to many social events. Their faces lit up as they related that they have been putting together a program to help educate adult Nicaraguans on western cultural and social norms because of the importance of tourism in their country. I have been invited to assist in developing the curriculum for the program and will jump start the classes next summer. Confidence and success are entirely variables of your situation, and to this extent, I believe cotillion has given me the means to be carry myself with confidence and success.

- Cotillion Graduate

In many situations, I have referred to the skills I've learned through cotillion, whether at a Christmas dinner with relatives or while working at the hardware store. I've attributed much of my success in personal relations to the knowledge I've gained at cotillion. I look forward to and know my future will be bright because of the wonderful instruction given to me by cotillion classes.

- Cotillion Graduate

I would like to thank you for my many years involved in you Cotillion program. Not only did I attend monthly classes beginning in 4th grade, I've had the honor of being a student instructor for an additional four years, through my senior year of high school. Cotillion has taught me not only formal etiquette and dances, but provided me with leadership skills and confidence. This fall I will be attending the University of Washington to study art and architecture. Thanks to my time in Cotillion, I am looking forward to a successful college career.

- Cotillion Graduate

Through Cotillion I have learned so much that has helped me to develop confidence in social arenas I might have found intimidating otherwise. As a student instructor in Cotillion, I am held to a higher standard; younger students look to me to help them acquire mastery of the skills which may one day help them to succeed. I want to empower them to develop social self-confidence, communication and leadership skills, as well as confidence and character. I feel that polite social skills are essential for establishing successful relationships. Knowing when to speak and when to listen is also a great skill to have. When you are comfortable and confident with yourself, you are more able to respect others. You can look into the eyes of the person you are being introduced to with a smile and a firm handshake. Being comfortable in an interview or a conversation has proved essential in so many areas of my life. The skills I have attained and taught have helped me become who I am today. I am not afraid to approach awkward situations or meet someone new. I have come to respect others and enjoy challenges. My leadership positions as both an instructor and a dancer have taught responsibility, confidence, and grace.

- Cotillion Graduate

I feel so privileged to have served as a Student Instructor. I have been able to interact with and set an example for the students, which has honed my leadership skills in other areas of my life. In addition, the opportunity to practice teamwork as I worked with the other instructors was of great benefit. As someone who participated in Survival Etiquette Essentials and greatly enjoyed it, I want to make sure that all of the students that I mentor get as much out of the experience as I did!

- Cotillion Graduate

...I feel that social skills are essential for establishing successful relationships. Knowing when to speak and when to listen is also a great skill to have. I have often found peers who believe that the loudest opinion is the best, but this notion is simply not true. In this technological age, impersonal communication like Facebook and email is fast replacing personal interaction. I find it frustrating when my friends prefer texting to speaking to me. When you are comfortable and confident in yourself, you are more able to respect others. You can look into the eye of the person you are being introduced to with a smile and a firm handshake. Being comfortable in an interview or a conversation is essential in so many areas of life.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has helped my confidence in many ways. I am now more social at my parents' parties. I greet the adults with kindness, respect and a good attitude. I can talk to them easily now where before I just went up to my room and wouldn't talk to anyone. I also have the confidence to speak up in class and answer questions. What an amazing experience.

- Cotillion Graduate

Being a student assistant has vastly improved my confidence and my comfort level in social situations. From school to just being with friends, I feel a definite change in the way I carry myself. It taught me to take charge of a situation even if I'm not 100% comfortable. I work with children, and the skills I learned at Cotillion taught me how to be polite, yet authoritative. Working as a student assistant helped me during the interview process as well. I used my knowledge from cotillion to make a good introduction and first impression, and had I not known this valuable information it is very possible I may not have gotten the job.

- Cotillion Graduate

My experience with JDW Cotillions has made me realize the need for social skills. The confidence that these classes inspire goes a lot farther than the punch bowl. It has truly shaped my life, and is giving me the confidence to take on the next intimidating challenge in my life -- college applications!

- Cotillion Graduate

My experience with JDWC has been an essential part of my maturation process. Each year I came away with new experiences and new understandings of myself as a young man and young gentleman. I know that I owe a great deal of my character to Jon D. Williams Cotillions.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has helped me be more confident in my interactions with adults. I think it will be of great value not only in college interviews, but also in the professional world after college.

- Eagle Scout, Member of National Honor Society, & Cotillion Graduate

My five years of cotillion has contributed to my confidence and success in several ways. Making new friends, receiving college scholarships and securing part-time jobs are just a few examples of situations where skills learned in your program have benefitted me. My leadership skills have developed significantly, as well as my ability to communicate effectively.

- Cotillion Graduate

I have an easier time remembering names when I meet people for the first time. This has proved invaluable going to college at a larger university where I meet new people on a daily basis. From entering a job interview and introducing myself with a firm handshake, to sending the interviewer a handwritten thank you note, I set myself apart. It is remembering these details that marks the difference between good and great, better and best, and contestant and finalist.

- Cotillion Graduate

I would like to thank you for my many years involved in your Cotillion program. Not only did I attend classes beginning in 4th grade, I've had the honor of being a student assistant for an additional four years, through my senior year of high school. Cotillion has taught me not only formal etiquette and dances, but provided me with leadership skills and confidence. This fall I will be attending the University of Washington to study art and architecture. Thanks to my time in cotillion, I'm looking forward to a successful college career.

- Cotillion Graduate

Teaching as a Student Assistant has presented many opportunities to show leadership, professionalism, and teamwork. These elements, combined, have indeed contributed greatly to my own confidence. I find it easier now to handle matters confidently as well as professionally. Working with children requires patience, poise and creativity. These are also characteristics of a leader.

- Cotillion Graduate

The first time I came to Cotillion, I was a terrified 9-year-old. I was the sort of child that hid in the nearest corner. By my middle school years, I could stand in a room full of people, but still not start a conversation comfortably. Now, as a student assistant in an incredibly supportive environment, I have learned to extend myself to make new friends with others I have never seen before. I am more confident, more socially successful, and a happier person.

- Cotillion Graduate

Cotillion has helped me in many ways. It has given me confidence and helped my leadership skills. The confidence I have gained has helped me when I talk to adults or go to formal parties. It was a nice change to be able to dance confidently at a wedding.

- Cotillion Graduate

Through Cotillion I have learned how to present myself better and greet people properly. I have also learned some very fun dances. I now feel more comfortable meeting new people. These skills will greatly increase my chances of getting a job, meeting new people, and hopefully meeting my future wife.

- Cotillion Graduate

I feel so privileged to have served as a Student Assistant. I have been able to interact with and set an example for the students, which has honed my leadership skills in other areas of my life. In addition, the opportunity to practice teamwork as I worked with the other instructors benefited me greatly. As someone who participated in the Survival Etiquette Essentials class and greatly enjoyed it, I want to make sure that all of the students I mentor get as much out of the experience as I did!

- Cotillion Graduate

Learning is the key to success, and having knowledge about manners and first impressions is very inspiring. I am grateful to have had this opportunity, and look forward to using this knowledge in college and beyond.

- Cotillion Graduate

My cotillion experience has given me more confidence to stand up in groups and speak publicly. I am also more confident in my leadership and organization skills. This has helped me grow in many ways.

- Cotillion Graduate

We were so impressed with the high standards you have instilled in your business; to encourage others to stand for truth, the importance of character. In and of itself-that's a never ending job- but to have to live it daily shows the convictions you stand for.

- Cotillion Patron

You are truly the key to our successful program! Thanks for making social skills so much fun for our kids!

- Cotillion Chairwoman

I am so thrilled JDW brought the Cotillion program to our very small mountain town. The children here need the social skills just as much as any other city, and may very well have benefited more than any community before. The instructor's rapport with each child speaks highly to the excellence and professionalism of Jon D. Williams Cotillions. Our children will always remember this special opportunity.

- Cotillion Chairwoman

Please extend our sincere thank you to all the members of the Cotillion for all you did to make Christmas merry and bright for the many Holy Cross Ministries afterschool participants and their families in Park City.

- Holy Cross Ministries Director

Jon D. Williams Cotillions' generous toy drive provided the Boulder Community with over 500 toys for children suffering from cancer in this past year. It was so moving to watch the children bringing in gifts and knowing it was going to make a difference. We value the lesson these children are learning through Cotillion, that being a spirit of kindness and generosity. This program is a tremendous asset to our community!

- There With Care Director

A student in our second level class was not in class last night because she was in Washington DC attending the Presidents Inaugural Ball. The evening involved much 'pomp and circumstance' and our cotillion student received many compliments on her poise and grace. Her father told me to call JDW and tell them that I don't know what they did at Cotillion last week, but whatever it was gave my daughter the poise and grace to pull off the evening! Wow, kudos to JDW!

- Cotillion Chairwoman

Dear Cotillion Staff Members, I just returned to NY from Denver and was delighted to dine with my nephew at the Brown Palace. He just turned eleven and his manners were extremely noteworthy. When I asked my sister about them she told me he attended your classes. All I can say is thank you, and congratulations. I wish you had offices in NY as I am an elementary teacher and would love to teach your course(s). Is there a chance you will be expanding?

- Aunt of Cotillion Student

Dear JDW, I wrote the cotillion story (for the newspaper) from my heart and it was no trouble as I truly did enjoy the years I worked as a chairwoman with all of you. It has been an honor to be a part of such a prestigious and exemplary organization. There will always be a place in my heart for cotillion. Occasionally someone will remember me because of my association with JDW Cotillions and I am always really proud to confirm that, yes, I was a part of the early seeds planted here in Park City. Thank you again.

- Cotillion Chairwoman

Dear JDW, This letter is to serve as a vessel filled to the top with gratitude, appreciation, recognition and thanks to you and your wonderful staff. Jon D. Williams Cotillions embodies the mission of Open Door Youth Gang Alternatives (Open Door) which is to provide positive, interactive and viable alternative activities for youth who might otherwise go home to unsupervised houses or be left to play outside in the crime, drug and gang infested neighborhoods in which they live. Jon D. Williams Cotillions deserves to be recognized and commended for the two years of unselfishly donated valuable time, energy, motivation, experience, services, ties and gloves. Through your efforts and professionalism the kids accidentally learned that they like ballroom dancing, knowing proper etiquette skills and that they have the ability to positively interact with members of the opposite sex. At the Cotillion you sponsored in December, I witnessed and will try to convey to you the expressions of delight, wonder and joy on the faces which I am sure were reflections from the hearts of both the adults who interact with kids and the kids who typically listen and dance to hip-hop music. Who would have thought that a tie, a pair of gloves and ballroom music could transcend what one would expect to find in the inner-city? Through your unique program the children hear loud and clear the message of self confidence, discipline, and respect for themselves and others. Rev. Kelly, his staff and kids wish to thank you for your generosity, dedication and belief that all kids deserve opportunities that may not be readily available to them. We too are sincerely grateful for the tremendous opportunities provided by the collaboration of collaboration of Jon D. Williams Cotillions and Open Door Youth Gang Alternatives.

- Enthusiastically, Terri Wash, Program Director

'There With Care is honored and privileged to have been the recipient of Jon D. Williams Cotillions generosity through your Baby Essentials Drive. Not only does the Cotillion program teach the most important qualities to the children in attendance, it also spreads care to delicate families in crisis. As you teach, we all learn. Thank you. We are so grateful.'

- There With Care Director